Simple Rules for Life
Anyone who uses the word meritocracy in any discussion is automatically disqualified from continuing to participate in said discussion
"I've never noticed any discrimination against me so it's obvious discrimination doesn't exist," is not a valid argument.
Anyone who says 'well, women don't like SCIENCE' needs to definitively respond to the following: In the last thirty years veterinary school graduating classes have gone from a handful of women per class to more than 50%. Veterinary medicine is commonly referred to as SCIENCE.
If you have never heard of unconscious bias, you are probably going to feel pretty stupid about some of the things you've said when (if!) you finally do understand it.
Men telling other men what they can and can't say to women (while at the same time telling women what they really ought to do) is pretty damn funny.